Grief isn't easy. It sometimes takes longer than we wish. We can't put a time table on grief. We each walk that road differently and it can get tricky when we try to step in and speak into someone else's process. Always be sensitive. Be their advocate not their bully.  I know there are times I wished I could just get past something and not feel so stuck by it. There are times that something is holding up our healing which can be addressed to expedite our process and there are other times that's just not the case. We must be kind to ourselves during the process.

Let me begin by giving you a glimpse into my life as a stay at home mom. I have 3 children, ages 6, 5 and 3. I had my children within the span of 37 months…. within just 3 years I had 3 children of my own.