It’s full of highs and lows. Ups and downs. Beauty and pain. The dynamics of life.

As humans we have different stories, but many times there are similarities.  I'm not looking for the critics to voice what they disagree with, but for those who identify to know there's hope. I share mine and Evan’s story for those who are standing in the shadows, hurting, and hoping there's a way out, to know that in fact there is!

A perfect marriage isn’t flawless! Marriage looks messy. It’s complicated. A perfect marriage in my opinion is one that involves two people who love each other and actually want to do life together so they both work diligently on becoming the best version of themselves for the sake of everyone they live with, including their own self!

I was bound up. I didn’t even realize how restricted I was by the co-dependent way I was living. I just couldn’t seem to be OK if my husband wasn’t.